Sunday, May 31, 2009
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Jenni rode along with us and visited her friend Molly while I was working. Chattanooga is such a pretty city. I need to plan to go back when I can explore more and not have to work.
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Have you ever tried to have a snack on the beach with a toddler around? I was eating a peanut butter sandwich on the beach today and Emri walked up and patted my sandwich with her sand covered hand. I didn't realize it until I took a big bite and got lots of sand grit in my teeth.
We try to take a family vacation each year, this year we chose Santa Rosa Beach, Florida. It's been a very long year, and I was glad to get away to relax. We rented a very nice house that is about 3 blocks from the beach. It has 5 bedrooms and 3 baths and is plenty big for us all to move around. We needed lot of room with 3 preschoolers in tow. The subdivision also has a couple of swimming pools so there are plenty of water activity options for everyone. Josh is not a big fan of sand, he much prefers the pool. Bryan, Josh and Jenni also have bikes and there are plenty of bike trails for them to enjoy in this area.
Friday, May 8, 2009
The Perfect Mother by Erma Bombeck
Everyone said Sharon was a terrific mother.
Her neighbors said it.
Sharon painted the inside of her garbage cans with enamel, grew her own vegetables, cut her own grass every week, made winter coats for the entire family from remnants, donated blood and baked Barbara Mandrell a doll cake for her birthday.
Her mother said it.
Sharon drove her to the doctor's when she had an appointment, color-coordinated the children's clothes and put them in labeled drawers, laundered aluminum foil and used it again, planned family reunions, wrote her Congressman, cut everyone's hair and knew her health insurance policy number by heart.
Her children's teacher said it.
She helped her children every night with their homework, delivered her son's paper route when it rained, packed nutritious lunches with little raised faces on the sandwiches, was homeroom mother, belonged to five car pools and once blew up 234 balloons by herself for the seventh grade cotillion.
Her husband said it.
Sharon washed the car when it rained, saved antifreeze from year to year, paid all the bills, arranged their social schedule, sprayed the garden for bugs, moved the hose during the summer, put the children on their backs at night to make sure they didn't sleep on their faces, and once found a twelve-dollar error on a tax return filed by H & R Block.
Her best friend said it.
Sharon build a bed out of scraps left over from the patio, crocheted a Santa Claus to cover the extra roll of toilet paper at Christmastime, washed fruit before her children ate it, learned to play the harpsichord, kept a Boston fern alive for a whole year, and when the group ate lunch out, Sharon always figured out who owed what.
Her minister said it.
Sharon found time to read all the dirty books and campaign against them. She played guitar at evening services. She corresponded with a poor family in Guatemala in SPANISH. She put together a cookbook to raise funds for a new coffee maker for the church. She collected door to door for all the health organizations.
Sharon was one of those women blessed with a knack for being organized. She planned a theme party for the dog's birthday, made her children elaborate Halloween costumes out of old grocery bags and her knots came out just right on the shoelaces when they broke. She put a basketball hoop over the clothes hanger as an incentive for good habits, started seedlings in a toilet paper spindle, and insulated their house with empty egg cartons, which everyone else threw away.
Sharon kept a schedule that would have brought any other women to her knees. Need twenty-five women to chaperone a party? Give the list to Sharon. Need a mother to convert the school library to the Dewey Decimal System? Call Sharon. Need someone to organize a block party, garage sale or a school festival? Get Sharon.
Sharon was a SUPER MOM! Her gynecologist said it. Her butcher said it. Her tennis partner said it. Her children
Her children never said it.
They spent a lot of time with Ricky's mother, who was always home with them and who ate cookies out of a box and played poker with them.
I had a wonderful "non-perfect" Mom. I still don't know how she managed to do everything she did for us and still teach all those classes. She was our brownie troop leader, we took every kind of lesson imaginable and she never missed a beat-Mom was always there for us. We constantly had friends at our house and she never complained, and of course they loved her just as much as we did. Granted our house was never spotless, but Mom always had plenty of time to spend with me and my sisters to talk and laugh. She knew the importance of being there for us. She is my role model and I miss her every day!
This year we are headed to Santa Rosa beach for the week, and I guess for once I really feel like I truly have earned a whole week off. I plan to relax and celebrate life with my fabulous family! Please pray we have great weather and a safe trip.
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Happy Birthday Linda and Lisa!